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I didn't think I would ever find love': Woman who had THREE liver transplants and given just hours to live celebrates recovery with the wedding of her dreams
- Kate Jakes, 22, never thought she would find love after battling liver failureShe had two unsuccessful transplant before the third one worked
- Just three weeks after her final operation she met her husband Gareth
woman who had three liver transplants and was given just hours to live has celebrated her good health by getting married.
Kate
Jakes, 22, from Birmingham, never thought she would find love due to
her health problems, which saw her go undergo three gruelling operations
in just three years after her body repeatedly rejected her new livers.
But,
after years of hospital appointments and surgeries, the blogger met her
future husband, Gareth, 25, on a rare day away from hospital - and the
pair married last month.
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In March last year Gareth proposed to Kate and they were married last month
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Kate, pictured in hospital before her second liver transplant, never thought she would find love
Kate said: 'With all my health issues, I come with a lot of baggage, so I never thought I'd find love.
'The
first time I met Gareth my skin was still yellow and I had a big tube
in my nose, but he saw through it and treated me like a normal person.
'It
was so refreshing because everyone was used to constantly tiptoe-ing
around me and wrapping me in cotton wool because I'd been unwell for so
long.
'I'd
lost a lot of my younger years on hospital wards so I was shocked he
was interested in me, normally as soon as people heard I was a
transplant patient they were too scared.
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Kate was given had two unsuccessful
liver transplants before the third and final one was a success. Pictured
- the 22-year-old's stomach showing the scars from transplants one and
two
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Kate Jakes,
22, spent three years battling life-threatening liver failure, but has
now celebrated returning to good health by marrying her husband Gareth
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Kate, pictured in hospital, was told that she would be lucky to survive a week if doctors failed to find a donor
'I
had to warn him that I would be ill a lot of the time and might have a
shorter life expectancy because of being a transplant patient.
'It wasn't the most romantic way to get to know someone but we had to be honest with each other.'
After experiencing health issues for much of her life, Kate wondered if she would ever find love.
She said: 'I used to get really upset, talking to my mum about how I'd never have a relationship with anyone.
'I wondered if anyone would ever want to deal with the hassle, but it didn't faze Gareth at all.
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Kate,
pictured left before transplant number three and before her date with
Gareth, and, right, after the operation, says Gareth met her when she
still had tubes in her nose and was not phased at all
'In the beginning of our relationship, whenever I used to talk about my health problems, he'd change the subject.
'It
was strange to get used to, but refreshing, he wanted to know me but in
a different way to everybody else - he didn't care about my health
issues.'
Kate began experiencing symptoms of liver failure when she was just 16 years old.
Her
worried parents, Tracey Tolley and Mike Trevener, put her lack of
energy down to her being a teenager, but soon her exhaustion began to
take over her life.
She
said: 'At school I would find that I couldn't concentrate and would
bring a lot of my work home, I just lacked energy to think clearly.
'It
got to the point where I planned days out with friends, was looking
forward to them, but had to cancel because I couldn't pull myself out of
bed.'
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Kate says it was amazing to find someone who didn't tiptoe around her illness
But it wasn't until Kate passed out at a supermarket that her parents realised something wasn't right.
Kate said: 'I came round and couldn't stand up on my own, my Dad had to support me even when taking a few steps.
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Kate is now back to normal health but says that she has to take things a bit slower
'I went to the doctor's surgery and the nurse took two looks and pulled a very worried face.
'A GP rushed in and noticed how jaundiced I looked - he called an ambulance straight away.'
Kate spent three weeks at Heartlands Hospital, while doctors tried to determine the cause of her symptoms.
She
was transferred to the Queen Elizabeth Hospital where she was diagnosed
with end stage liver failure caused by auto immune hepatitis - a
condition that is caused by an unknown virus that causes the body to
attack itself, thinking your organs are foreign objects.
Kate said: 'I was diagnosed two days before my 18th birthday.
'My
family and I were told the news, and then the doctors then introduced
us to two transplant coordinators - they told me I'd be lucky to survive
until the end of the week without a liver transplant.
'After I heard that everything turned to white noise.
'I couldn't concentrate or take in anything the doctors said.
'In my hospital bed, it didn't feel like my last week to live. I had to remain positive.
'It felt so dreadful and feared what would happen if they couldn't get me a liver in time.
'But
I kept thinking that if I died I didn't want my family to remember me
in pain and a misery, I wanted to leave them with happy memories.'
Kate's case was urgent and she was bumped to the top of the transplant list.
Time
ticked away and with less than 48 hours to live, doctors raced to tell
Kate that they'd found a liver, which was being flown over from Ireland.
Little
did they know, the plane carrying Kate's new liver had crashed on the
runway at Birmingham Airport, after heavy fog and bad weather conditions
made it difficult for the pilot to land.
Surgeons
worried the organ may have been damaged in the crash that hospitalised
two people, but fortunately it was found by the fire services who
plucked it from the burning plane and rushed it to the hospital.
The transplant was complete, but eight days later the family's joy was dashed, when Kate's body rejected the new liver.
With all my health issues, I come with a lot of baggage, so I never thought I'd find love
Kate was put back on the transplant list, and was placed in a medically induced coma to prolong her life.
Remarkably, a second liver was soon found and a second transplant took place.
But six months later Katie's skin returned to a jaundiced glow, a clear sign that her body was rejecting this liver too.
Kate
said: 'A lot of people die waiting on the transplant list so I felt so
lucky to have had the two livers but equally shocked they had failed.
'The
first two kept me alive long enough to try again and gave me that
chance to fight my rare condition, it spurred me on to keep fighting.'
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Kate met Gareth just three weeks after her final transplant and the pair instantly clicked
Kate's
health continued to get worse - she suffered from fluid retention
around her heart and lungs as well as severe kidney failure, almost
heading into a coma.
Three
months later, Kate was overjoyed once more to discover that a third
liver was found. Remarkably, her body accepted the liver and her health
started to pick up.
Three weeks later Kate was discharged from hospital for the weekend where she met Gareth, an airman in the RAP, at a party.
Quickly the couple grew close and in March last year, Gareth popped the question.
Kate said: 'He came home one day and asked me to marry him.
'It wasn't a big fancy engagement, but it was perfect for us. '
The couple finally married in July last year and are now planning their honeymoon.
Kate
said: 'I should have died at 18 before I had my first transplant, so to
find love and to have married Gareth has made me happier than I could
have imagined.
'I never thought anyone would be able to overlook everything I've been through.
'My
health is now fine, although I still have to take things a bit slower
than other people, a day's shopping will tire me out, which Gareth's
probably grateful for.'
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